If your girlfriend or partner is unexpectedly pregnant, it’s normal to experience a range of emotions from shock to fear to uncertainty. Take some time to process your emotions before you talk with your girlfriend about the next step.
The good news is that there are plenty of resources available for an unplanned pregnancy.
Your role is important. This article offers simple, practical ways you can show up for your partner and support them along the way. You can also schedule an appointment to talk through your concerns and find the support you need.
Keep an Open Mind
If you’re feeling shaken, there’s a good chance your partner is, too. This kind of news can be overwhelming for both of you. Set aside some intentional time to talk, where you can each share about what you’re feeling.
It’s okay if you need space to process, but pregnancy can be an especially vulnerable time for her. As you both navigate the news of the pregnancy, do your best to stay open, listen fully, and offer steady support.
Research Your Options
While you may feel pressure to choose quickly, taking the time to learn about your options will help you both feel confident in your decision in the long term.
At Dove Medical, you can receive free, medically accurate information, ask questions, and explore your partner’s options (abortion, adoption, or parenting) in a supportive environment.
Make a Plan and Take Next Steps
With compassion and honest communication, try to stay open-minded to her opinions. You can each do your own research, together or separately, and have conversations about next steps.
We can also help your partner gather more information about her pregnancy. We offer a no-cost ultrasound, which is an important first step to determine gestational age, location, and viability, which affect her options.
Contact us to schedule a confidential appointment. We’re here for you both.
Dove Medical offers pregnancy diagnosis, decision coaching, and accurate information about all pregnancy options; however, we do not refer for or perform abortion services, including the abortion pill.
This post is for education and information purposes only and does not substitute the advice of a Healthcare Professional.